After 3 years of preparation and a year of waiting, our little family finally made it to South Asia. These are my reflections on daily living, culture, spiritual growth, and family.
Wednesday, December 28, 2005
Sunday, December 04, 2005
Fish Tale
I was at my friends house the other day and some people came in and started talking about a fish that their friend had caught. He caught a 60kg river fish. Now that is big! Bigger than me and most Asian females. I just can't imagine a river fish being that big. Well, then I was invited to go dinner to taste the fish. Unfortunately I didn't get to see the fish, but the part that was cut up looked like a lot of fish. It was cooked in hot pot, a big pot of boiling broth that you eat of at the table, and I actually didn't like it very much. A lot of the pieces did not look like fish at all. It seemed to have a pork texture with a fish flavor. It was also very fatty (fish is not supposed to be like that). As normal, people felt the need to keep adding pieces to my bowl, so I got to eat part of the tail. The tail doesn't have any meat so you basically are just sucking the skin off the bone.
The funniest part about this story to me was that everyone kept talking about it. The conversation at dinner kept being, "So how big was the fish again?" "126 jin, wow, that's bigger than. . ." Anytime a new person came in the room the same conversation would pick up. I am really surprised that the fish did not grow during the conversation, but I did find out that it was supposedly 20 years old.
The funniest part about this story to me was that everyone kept talking about it. The conversation at dinner kept being, "So how big was the fish again?" "126 jin, wow, that's bigger than. . ." Anytime a new person came in the room the same conversation would pick up. I am really surprised that the fish did not grow during the conversation, but I did find out that it was supposedly 20 years old.
My friends had a baby last month so went to see the baby. The custom here is such that American women probably would not put up with. Mothers are not supposed to leave the home for an entire month after the baby is born. She must stay at home eating only chicken, eggs, and a sweet soup called Sugar Beer that has brown sugar and eggs in it (pretty much nothing else). My friend asked me about the customs in America and she was jealous. She is really tired of staying home and eating chicken. The mother is also not supposed to wash her hair or shower for this month, but my friend was rebellious on that point. Normally the Husband's mother is supposed to come to take care of the baby and the house but Eric's mother passed away so he has to do the household duties, like shopping, that Helen cannot do.
Sunday, November 27, 2005
Thursday, November 24, 2005
Holiday Traditions
Today was Thanksgiving, a holiday which is not really recognized in Asia because it isn't very commercial and it is country specific. Despite this fact, the Americans in my city went all out and had a good old fashioned pot-luck Dinner. We had cornbread dressing, broccoli rice casserole, sweet potato casserole (my favorite), mashed potatoes, veggies (my other favorite), pumpkin and pecan pies, and Chicken. That's right, a turkey is now alive today because we had chicken for Thanksgiving dinner.
After dinner we played Phase 10 (and I was stuck on phase 5 until the end of the game, but we won't talk about that), and then we took part in a very odd holiday tradition that we started on the 4th of July. The place we have our holiday get togethers is a 10th/top floor apartment. On the fourth of July we went up on the roof and someone started spitting watermelon seeds off. Then it progressed and someone threw their watermelon rind into the bushes, so then we all did it and tried not to hit the protruding air vents on the way down. It was fun so we decided to do it every holiday. So tonight we through dinner rolls off the balocony. Of course these were kind of hard and ball shaped so dropping it into the bushes was not the objective. This time we threw them and tried to get them onto roof tops and in other places. Unfortunately it was dark so we could not see where they landed exactly but we could hear the thud and kind of tell if it landed on a roof or the ground. Now I know this probably sounds very adolescent to you, but I will let you know that all of the participants are fully grown adults and some of them even have grown kids. Don't worry we didn't hit anyone and we have made a point to only throw things that are ok for the environment. So what will the food of choice be for Christmas? I don't know yet, but it will be exciting!
After dinner we played Phase 10 (and I was stuck on phase 5 until the end of the game, but we won't talk about that), and then we took part in a very odd holiday tradition that we started on the 4th of July. The place we have our holiday get togethers is a 10th/top floor apartment. On the fourth of July we went up on the roof and someone started spitting watermelon seeds off. Then it progressed and someone threw their watermelon rind into the bushes, so then we all did it and tried not to hit the protruding air vents on the way down. It was fun so we decided to do it every holiday. So tonight we through dinner rolls off the balocony. Of course these were kind of hard and ball shaped so dropping it into the bushes was not the objective. This time we threw them and tried to get them onto roof tops and in other places. Unfortunately it was dark so we could not see where they landed exactly but we could hear the thud and kind of tell if it landed on a roof or the ground. Now I know this probably sounds very adolescent to you, but I will let you know that all of the participants are fully grown adults and some of them even have grown kids. Don't worry we didn't hit anyone and we have made a point to only throw things that are ok for the environment. So what will the food of choice be for Christmas? I don't know yet, but it will be exciting!
Thursday, November 17, 2005
Notice the big water bottles under the desk. The dormitory does not have hot water so the students must go to the cafeteria and pay for hot water if they want to wash their hair. Of course, now the sun has decided to go into hiding, my solar heated shower does not have hot water either, perhaps I can borrow from them.
Aerobics with an Asian Flare
Tuesday I went to a nearby gym to check out a "Dance" class. After about 30 seconds of the dance class I realized that it is really just high impact aerobics on fast forward. I seriously wish that I had video tape of it because I know that I would laugh (oh wait, I did). Not only did the male instructor take normal aerobics moves and put them in double time, he also made them bigger. We spent about an hour and a half flailing our arms and legs in multiple directions and moving our bodies in ways that just don't seem natural. The work out was definitely good for my heart, but don't know how great it is for the rest of your body. Perhaps if I have time I will try the Latin dance class next time.
Sunday, October 23, 2005
Weird things about myself
I read someone's blog who had been tagged to share 5 weird things about themselves, so now I am tagged. But how on earth can I just list five? I live in Asia, there are a lot of weird things about me.
1. My 2nd and 3rd toes on my left foot are stuck together
2. I have eaten dog more than once and I like it.
3. Dancing in my kitchen is one of my favorite activities.
4. Coffee, tea, chocolate, dark sodas, and headache medications are off limits because caffeine gives me migraines.
5. I have curly hair (that my not seem weird to you, but it Asia it is very peculiar).
So now you have been tagged. What are five weird things about yourself?
1. My 2nd and 3rd toes on my left foot are stuck together
2. I have eaten dog more than once and I like it.
3. Dancing in my kitchen is one of my favorite activities.
4. Coffee, tea, chocolate, dark sodas, and headache medications are off limits because caffeine gives me migraines.
5. I have curly hair (that my not seem weird to you, but it Asia it is very peculiar).
So now you have been tagged. What are five weird things about yourself?
This is our kitchen/dining room that actually flows right into the living room. I am quite thankful for counters, and sink with hot water, and our avocado green refrigerator. The purple pillow is in the chair because I was practicing writing and the table is too tall so I needed more leverage. That is my roommate over in the corner.
Here is the rest of my room. The fan that you see is just about to be out of season!! I am finally sleeping under covers with the fan on low. My room opens up onto our balcony which has the wonderful function drying clothing. Last night I stood on the balcony and watched fireworks that were being shot off at a nearby park. It was probably the best display I have seen here so far.
This is our living room. It is quite spacious so it makes a great place to do exercise videos, I don't even have to move the couch back. We have a rock garden over by the window, but it is currently covered by stuff we are storing. The water cooler on the left is the a necessary item for our hydration. There are two people living in our apartment and we go through one bottle every two days.
You will have to turn your head for this one because I uploaded my pictures wrong and couldn't get it turned around. This is our laundry room. If you think you see two washing machines, you are right. We are storing one for a friend while they are temporarily back in the States. In my old apartment I had to turn the water off and on during the different stages of washing. This one does it on its own and it is so wonderful.
I have been living in my apartment for almost four months now so I figured it was about time to give you a tour. This is the office. My little desk has the black rolly chair, it is quite fun! Out the window is a hospital, though not an hospital that foreigners can go to so it isn't really a convenient neighbor.
Wednesday, October 19, 2005
This is the gateway to a light tour of most famous buildings in South East Asia. They were actually really pretty and it was a beautiful early fall evening. There was fun, exotic music playing in the background which made it enjoyable for one whose body constantly moves to whatever beat is in the air. In this picture you can also faintly see some of the flags of the various countries.
I went with some friends to the ASEAN Expo International Tourism and Food Festival. We were all expecting foods from all the different represented South East Asian countries and were a little disappointed to only find food that we could find in the night food courts of our city. I ate things I had never tried though. We had roast chicken that was wrapped in paper and cooked in clay, a food that kind of resembled corn bread stuffing that was stuffed inside a little woven bag, and some sour tofu (my least favorite).
This is a picture of the boat infront of us exiting the caves. We sat on benches on little rafts while our driver steered us through the three doors with a long pole. After the ride we stopped and ate the local food. We had some little river fish that you eat whole, head and all. I normally kind of like those, but these were really bitter.
Fashion Blunders
Tuesday, October 04, 2005
I have become very accustomed to riding countryside buses and I actually really enjoy it. Yesterday I had a new experience. The road that we were driving on suddenly went into the river. Of course the bus stopped before this happened, we all got of the bus and then road a raft to the other side where there was another road. I guess it really isn't that exciting, but it was certainly different.
Sunday, September 18, 2005
In celebration of Mid-Autumn festival, I was given two boxes of mooncakes(4perbox). I cannot read the packaging so I had no idea what was inside each one. The night of the full moon my roommate and I decided to have a taste testing party. These are the remains after the party. As you can probably tell, we didn't really like them. The varities included; egg yolk, white sesame seed with some kind of fruit and nut, some other kind of fruit and nut with meat I think, chocolate and fig, and honey cream. I will just have to say that though they look pretty, I will pass next year.
September 18th this year is Mid-Autumn Festival centered around the full moon. Because the celebration is about the moon, everything moon-shaped is used to celebrate this occasion. Though the people say it is about the moon, it seems that it is rather about the moon-shaped cake. Every street is lined with people selling boxes of mooncakes (very dense biscuits with a wide assortment of fillings). It is tradition to give mooncakes to people for this holiday and then you give away the ones you get. I really wonder how many billion mooncakes are bought and given during the month of September, and how many are thrown away uneated. This picture is in the market, selling individually wrapped mooncakes.
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